Alright So put in my Ipod in to Itunes and My songs on My Ipod get deleted. I didnt hit restore or anything. The songs are still on my Itunes. So I tried to connect so The songs from Itunes would come back on my Ipod. but it says that it cant recognize it and I should restore it. If I restore it doesnt the songs on my Itunes get deleted

If anyone can help me and tell me whats the best thing I should I would greatly appreciate it. All I do is want the songs on my Itunes to just go back on my Ipod. Thanks to anyone that can help